Profile SpookiusMortem: Gomez seeks Morticia

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

First name Erik
I Can Speak English, German
I Would Describe Myself As I'm fun, caring, easy to get along with, and looking for a passionate, long term D/s relationship with a woman who runs apart from the herd and is very open minded. Ideally, she would be open to new experiences, reliable, honest, kinky, 420 friendly, and at least somewhat rebellious. I believe elevating each other, respecting each other, and open communication are hallmarks of a stellar partnership. I know what I want and need in a relationship, so no head games to be found here (but there might be dragons...and maybe treasure!!!).

I'm mostly a non-traditional person and love challenging the status quo of societal standards. I love tattoos, piercings, and offbeat/eccentric people. I'm very much into industrial, metal, and goth music, especially the three combined. I am obsessed with all things relating to goth/industrial culture (huge bonus of you are too, but not a requirement), much in the same way that a lot of people are obsessed with anime or Harry Potter. I dress almost exclusively in black. My favorite cultural icon is The Addams Family and if I could be any fictional character it would be Gomez, or maybe Uncle Fester (close call, that one). Counter-culture is where it's at. Go weird or go home.

I love kids and have two of my own, a 10 yo son and an 8 yo daughter. They don't live with me but I spend time with them nearly every day. I also have the most awesome cat in the world. I consider myself neither a Democrat nor a Republican. The only reason I mention this is because I am frequently asked about my political views, and that said, I'm rarely interested in talking politics. I fully support the LGBTQ+ community, gender equality, marriage equality, and overall social justice (BLM!!!).

I don't watch or follow sports, I don't hunt (not opposed to it, rather I'm just not interested), I'm handy, but not particularly outdoorsy (though camping, hot springs, and bonfires are fun). I've been known to have severe allergic reactions to hip hop, R&B, and country music.
Sign Aquarius

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is 5' 10 (1.78 m)
My Ethnicity Is Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is Divorced
I Have Kids Yes - Sometimes At Home
I Want Kids Not Sure
Body Art Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is Dark Brown
I Have One Or More Of These Cat
Willing To Relocate No

More about him

What genre of music do you enjoy most? Industrial
What is your favorite band? This site keeps deleting my favorite band as a violation of the terms of service.
Who is your favorite writer? Lovecraft, Matthew Lewis, and Tanith Lee
Who is your favorite character from literature? The Addams Family (I know, not really literature, but close enough)

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is Full-time
My Speciality Is Computers / Electronic
My Job Title Is Software Developer
I Live Alone
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink Yes - Socially

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Outcast
My Social Behavior Is Reserved, Observant, Dark
My Interest And Hobbies Are Family, Reading, Arts & Crafts, Learning, Music, Clubbing / Bar Hopping, Gardening, Cars
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Partying, Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Clubbing / Bars, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Obscure, I Don't Have Any Friends

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Other
My Goal In Life Is Just a comment about the My Religion options. It's quite clear the developers of this site aren't at all into the goth scene by some very notable omissions in the drop down choices, namely pagan, wiccan, and Luciferian.
My Kind Of Humor Is Campy, Clever, Obscure, Raunchy

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch I Don't Like Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Science Fiction, Horror
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Metal, Industrial

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Look For? Submissive, maybe e.n.m. depending on the person