Profile grimhaven: Who wants to escape the matrix with me?

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

First name Steven
I Can Speak English
I Would Describe Myself As Nerdy. Love d&d, mtg, gaming,anime, board games & tabletop. Play on pc & retro games too. Introverted & homebody but not shy in the least. Like most music except most rap & country. Mainly listen to 50-60s oldies & metal. Like muscle cars, motorcycles, piercings, & tattoos. Very socially awkward. Neurodivergent, sarcastic, blunt with almost no filter, & dirty minded. I don’t have baby mama drama, or any exes I’m hung up on. Own my house & car. Like the occasional glass of wine or beer but generally don’t drink. Occasionally have a cigar or two every few years. Don’t really smoke outside of that. Don’t do it much personally but I am green friendly. Not a fan of partying or clubbing. Rather stay home & cook for people. Have 1 adorable cat that follows me everywhere & sleeps with me constantly. I want more companions someday. Like animals more than people. Prefer deep intellectual/philosophical conversations than small talk. I want to know all your fears, dreams, passions. What makes you tick & what you want out of life. What is important to you. Not the weather or your sign. I’m an old school romantic in a world of transactional or superficial relationships.

Looking for something serious & long term. I’m straight so no dudes/former dudes. Sorry. Looking for someone honest & loyal. Want that passionate/fiery kind of relationship but without all the drama. Want someone who brings me peace & a safe place to come home to. Where I can escape all stress of reality. I also wish to be that for you. Someone I can talk to all day & never get bored. I want to share & build a life with someone who fills the void in my heart & makes me look forward to every new day. I once saw someone wear a shirt that resonated with me. It said, “I’m vulnerable right now if any goth girls want to take advantage of me.” I wholeheartedly believe in that sentiment. I’ll go at your pace but will not wait forever. I want a real meaningful relationship but I am not desperate either. Perfectly comfortable where I am in life. Show me you are worth risking my sanity & peace for. I believe in meeting someone to get to know them. I hope you feel the same. Haven’t had much luck on dating sites so I don’t make first move anymore. It’s mentally exhausting trying to talk & find that it goes no where or get ghosted. It’s your turn to take initiative. If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message. Let’s see if we are compatible. Otherwise, I wish you the best of luck on your search.
Sign Aries

Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is A Few Extra Pounds
My Height Is 5' 11 (1.8 m)
My Eyes Are Blue
My Ethnicity Is Caucasian
My Marital Situation Is Never Married
I Have Kids No
I Want Kids Not Sure
My Best Feature Is Eyes
Body Art Scarred, Visible Tattoo
My Hair Is Dark Blonde
I Have One Or More Of These Cat
Willing To Relocate No

More about him

What genre of music do you enjoy most? Other
What is your favorite band? FFDP, Dion & belmonts, Bryan Adams
Who is your favorite writer? Tracy Hickman, Richard a knaak, Margaret Weiss
Who is your favorite character from literature? Raistlin

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is College Degree
My Current Employment Status Is Retired
My Speciality Is Military
My Job Title Is Cav scout
I Live Alone, With Pet(s)
At Home All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker Yes - Cigars
I Drink Yes - One Or Two

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Quiet One
My Social Behavior Is Observant, Anti-social, Friendly, Dark, Strange
My Interest And Hobbies Are Learning, Music, Movies, Internet, Games, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Cars, Playing Cards, Camping, Computers
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Staying At Home, Trying New Things, Relaxing, Sleeping, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be Keep it simple. Get to know each other over food or a gaming session.
I've Always Wanted To Try Visit Europe, go off grid
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Goofy

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Not Religious
I Attend Services Never
My Political Views Are I Don't Like Politics
My Goal In Life Is Live off grid away from civilization & build a life with someone.
My Kind Of Humor Is Dry / Sarcastic, Raunchy, Sadistic

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch I Don't Like Tv
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Action, Science Fiction, Comedy, Animation, Horror
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Rock, Metal, Blues, Jazz, Soul, Folk, Punk
When I Read, I Always Read Ancient, Fantasy, Fiction, Mystery, Philosophy, Poetry, Science Fiction, Supernatural
My Idea Of Fun Is Staying home, watching anime/youtube, movies, gaming sessions, cooking for other people. Other stuff if not single.

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Wit, Flirtatiousness, Oddities, Boldness, Empathy, Great Skills, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence
What Do You Look For? Honesty, loyalty, integrity, blunt, intelligence, personality, kindness, patience, accountability, peace of mind, nerdy, not argumentative or cause drama, makes time for relationship & attraction. I’m a top heavy guy all the way. Don’t mind a few extra pounds for that reason. Don’t care about income, height, or things you have no control over. I just want you to be present & actively participating in relationship.
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Date, Intimate, Committed