Smile and smile and be a villain
Age 47 From Redlands, California Online Over 2 weeks ago
Man Seeking A Woman
Basic Information
Tell us a bit about yourself.
- I Can Speak English, French
- I Would Describe Myself As A Literary geek looking for a person with some style and personality. Tired of sunshiney "Cali-girls." There was a time when a bit of melancholy in a man was considered a mark of distinction. Men like Byron, Hemingway, were esteemed for their gravity and frank estimations of society. How have we created this culture that believes that constant happiness is a state to strive for? Why is a plastic smile now the mark of normality? Paper villain though he was, perhaps the Bard’s Don Jon said it best, “I cannot hide what I am: I must be sad when I have cause and smile at no man's jests, ...laugh when I am merry and claw no man in his humour...it must not be denied but I am a plain-dealing villain...let me be that I am and seek not to alter me.” Oh, I know the value of professionalism and of being politic but that does not mean that I have to like it. I do not seek to change the world but I wish it could be more accepting, even for its own sake. I’d love to find someone with whom I can share a sense of wonderment for both the Light AND the Dark; someone who does not fear tears or despair, who can sit quietly in the dark from time to time and be content. How we face death is at least as important as how we face life. Don’t you think?
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Appearance & Situation
What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.
- My Body Type Is Stocky
- My Height Is 6' 0 (1.83 m)
- My Eyes Are Green
- My Ethnicity Is European, Caucasian
- My Marital Situation Is Divorced
- I Have Kids No
- I Want Kids Not Sure
- My Best Feature Is Smile
- Body Art Other
- My Hair Is Brown
- I Have One Or More Of These No pets
- Willing To Relocate Yes
Status
What do you do?
- My Education Level Is University Degree
- My Current Employment Status Is Student
- My Speciality Is Education / Academic
- My Job Title Is Teacher/philologist
- I Make This Much In A Year $30,000USD To $44,999USD
- I Live Alone
- At Home All Is Calm
- I'm A Smoker Yes - Cigars
- I Drink Yes - Socially
Personality
How do you act? What are your tastes?
- Back In High School, I Was A Brain
- My Social Behavior Is Reserved, Observant, Friendly
- My Interest And Hobbies Are Reading, Learning, Movies, Games, Religion / Spirituality, Theater, Travel, Camping
- My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Relaxing, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
- An Ideal First Date Would Be First dates should be about conversation. Coffee shops are always good for that.
- I've Always Wanted To Try Living in another country. Britain, Australia, maybe Japan.
- My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Cool, Obscure
Views
Views on life.
- My Religion Is Christian
- I Attend Services Once A Month
- My Political Views Are Conservative
- My Goal In Life Is To share the endless fascinations of the world with someone.
- My Kind Of Humor Is Clever, Friendly, Obscure
Taste
What do you like?
- On Tv, I Always Watch News, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies, I Don't Like Tv, Sports, Re-runs
- When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Action, Science Fiction, Drama
- When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Rock, Classical, Vacuum Cleaner Noises, Blues, Jazz, Folk
- When I Read, I Always Read News, Ancient, Anthology, Classic, Fantasy, Fiction, History, Humor, Philosophy, Political, Reference, Poetry, Religious, Satire, Science, Science Fiction, I'm An Author
- My Idea Of Fun Is On my own? I read. And consume copious amounts of coffee, except when I read Hemingway, then I drink. Socially, it depends on the person, but I refuse to dance
Looking for
What are you looking for in your soulmate?
- What Do You Find Attractive? Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Empathy, Sensitivity, Wit, Thoughtfullness
- What Do You Look For? A pluse and a full set of limbs. And I'm prepared to negotiate on the limbs.
- What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed
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